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Hi Guys, it’s been a while since I
share my thoughts and feelings here. Been busy around and just maybe lazy to
think and write something. But here I am again. Glad to be able to come back
and push my brain again. Actually I write this post
because I just read one of my value best friend’s thoughts about fall in love in
her eyes and she’s inspire me in some way to also write about my thoughts about
people called “Love”. Well you can see her post on https://nadhirulmaghfiroh.wordpress.com/2015/07/11/fall-in-love/
. I personally think that she write a
great post, I love how brave she is to write and express her opinions boldly
and well she always inspire me somehow. I admire her in person and I believe that she'll be a great person in the future ;)
Well people always think that I’m a
melodramatic person from many aspects in my whole life. The books that I read,
the movies and dramas that I watched, the status that I wrote in my social
medias, and the conversation that I often to talk with my friends clearly lead
me to a romance person. I won’t deny it since that’s a thousand percent correct
and I sincerely love the way I am.
I maybe talked about how many times
I fell in love with various guys and how many times I wonder about how does it
feels to have a guy that loved me back since I’m not having these kind of guy
yet in my life. Many people see me as a desperate girl in that area, in my
romance life. But actually I also realize that for me, love is not all about woman-man
relationship. I also always think that love is everything that you want to do
and makes your heart beat faster when you feel or do it. I do fall in love with
many guys but I also fall in love thousand times with my lifestyle, with
everything that I currently doing and did. The truth is many people seem see
that I’m falling in love with my professional life more than my own romance
life. Many people see me as a passionate person if I already do something that
I love.
For me falling in love is a good
thing because it’s something that you feel passionate about and want to do a
hundred percent on it. I actually love the thrill when I tried something beyond
my imagination to achieve my dream. I love the thrill and the way my heart beat
faster when I’m waiting for the result of something that I’m already do with
all passion that I might have. Even if it’s ended with a failure but at least I
enjoyed the thrill and I know that I already did my best. Then I push myself
harder to move forward and try again.
Again, you should know that whenever
you’re in love then you must make sacrifice in some areas. Well in my case,
when I’m falling in love with the work that I do or the dream that I’m working
for then I instantly putting aside my own romance life. It does makes me
desperate about the needed of romance and a need to be loved by a guy , but I without
much realizing it, I also know that it’s something that I’ve to sacrifice for
the sake of the things that I loved or prioritize more in my life at the time
being.
It just depended on every people about
the things that they fall in love with. Some people love with their work, some
people love with their religion, some people love with their romance life, some
people love with their families, some people love with their pets, some people in
love with politics, and so on. Well you can also fall in love with not only one
thing in your life. It’s your freedom to choose and live with it.
And I think it’s good when you’re
in state of falling in love since when you’re in this state, you’ll put you
concentrate, your passion, your willingness, your commitment, and your one
hundred percent on it. But again, I think you should realize that your live isn’t
all about the areas that you’re fall in love with. There are some other aspects
that I also important for you. So balance it and don’t make yourself blind with
everything that you’re falling in love with.
I won't say that I'm already success to balance my life. Well I've to admit that it's hard to balance my professional and personal life. But at least I try to aim those balance life. In the end, Happy Saturday :)
